Hibernate LazyLoading initialization of List - sql

Question

I've typical User and Comment-Models. One user has more comments.
On one usecase i want to get only a user from db, without comments.
I thought, as soon i tell "getComments()", so only in this moment, my List will initialized with
something like "select comment from Comment c where c.userId = 1" from Hibernate.
But my List of comments will be initialized everytime when i say findyById or "select user from User".
#Entity
#Getter #Setter
#ToString(exclude = {"comments")
#Builder
#AllArgsConstructor
#NoArgsConstructor
public class User implements Serializable{
#Id
#GeneratedValue(strategy=GenerationType.IDENTITY)
private Long id;
#Builder.Default
#OneToMany(mappedBy="user", fetch = FetchType.LAZY)
private List<Comment> comments = new ArrayList<>();
}
My Comment Model:
#Entity
#Getter #Setter
#Builder
#AllArgsConstructor
#NoArgsConstructor
public class Comment implements Serializable{
#Id
#GeneratedValue(strategy=GenerationType.IDENTITY)
private Long id;
#Builder.Default
#ManyToOne(fetch = FetchType.LAZY)
private User user; }
UserRepository:
public interface UserRepository extends JpaRepository<User, Long> {
#Query("SELECT user FROM User user WHERE user.id =:id")
Optional<User> findUserById(#Param("id") long id); }
When i tell:
userRepository.findUserById(1);
So i see at first only one select-statment for user.
Few seconds later i see next statment for comment, but i did not tell "user.getComments()"
So how can i get User-Model without any Lazy-List's with related Object?