Select Parent having null and not null child - sql

Question

Given 3 tables like:
[Table_Main] ----> [Table_Sub] ----> [Table_Prop]
1-N 0-N
I want to select item in [Table_Main] that :
- Have multiple [Table_Sub].
- with [Table_Sub] lines that have both [Table_Prop] and haven't.
To select those value I use :
SELECT Table_Main.Field_ID
FROM Table_Main
INNER JOIN Table_Sub on Table_Main.Field_ID = Table_Sub.Table_Main_Field_ID
LEFT JOIN Table_Prop on Table_Sub.Field_ID = Table_Prop.Table_Sub_Field_ID
If we rename table Family, Child and Pet. I need family where some childs has pet(s) but some child doesn't.
Family: Id, Name
1, Foo -- Family with 2 childs, one of them has a pet
2, Bar -- Family with 2 childs, 0 pet
3, Abc -- Family with 2 childs, both have pet
Child: Id, Family_Id, Name
1, 1, John -- Child of Foo
2, 1, Joe -- Child of Foo
3, 2, Jane
4, 2, Jessica
5, 3, XXX
6, 3, YYY
Pet: Id, Child_Id, Name
1, 2, FooBar -- Joe's pet
2, 5, Huey
3, 6, Dewey
Expected Result:
1, Foo
Family with less than 2 childs is exclude from the exemple has they can satisfy both constraint:
- Has a child with a pet
- Has a child with no pet.
Table Creation :
CREATE TABLE Family(
1 INTEGER NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY
,Foo VARCHAR(20) NOT NULL
);
INSERT INTO Family(1,Foo) VALUES (1,'Foo');
INSERT INTO Family(1,Foo) VALUES (2,'Bar');
INSERT INTO Family(1,Foo) VALUES (3,'Abc');
CREATE TABLE Child(
Id INTEGER NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY
,Family_Id INTEGER NOT NULL
,Name VARCHAR(20) NOT NULL
);
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (1,1,'John');
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (2,1,'Joe');
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (3,2,'Jane');
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (4,2,'Jessica');
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (5,3,'XXX');
INSERT INTO Child(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (6,3,'YYY');
CREATE TABLE Pet(
Id INTEGER NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY
,Family_I INTEGER NOT NULL
,Name VARCHAR(20) NOT NULL
);
INSERT INTO Pet(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (1,2,'FooBar');
INSERT INTO Pet(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (2,5,'Huey');
INSERT INTO Pet(Id,Family_Id,Name) VALUES (3,6,'Dewey');

Answer 1

This will give you desired result.
;with family as
(
select 1 FamilyID, 'Foo' Family union select 2, 'Bar' union select 3, 'ABC'
), child as
(
select 1 ChildID, 1 FamilyID ,'John' ChildName union
select 2, 1, 'Joe' union
select 3, 2, 'Jane' union
select 4, 2, 'Jessica' union
select 5, 3, 'XXX'union
select 6, 3, 'YYY'
), pets as
(
select 1 petid , 2 childid, 'FooBar' pet union
select 2, 5, 'Huey' union
select 3, 6, 'Dewey'
)
SELECT T.FamilyID, Max(Family) Family, MIN(CNT) [Min] , MAX(CNT) [Max] FROM
(
SELECT f.FamilyID, C.ChildID, SUM(case when petid is null then 0 else 1 end) CNT FROM Family F
JOIN Child C ON F.FamilyID = C.FamilyID
LEFT JOIN Pets P ON C.ChildID = P.ChildID
GROUP BY F.FamilyID, C.ChildID
) T JOIN Family F on T.FamilyID = F.FamilyID GROUP BY T.FamilyID
HAVING MIN(CNT) = 0 AND MAX(CNT) > 0

Answer 2

Query
select family.ID, family.name
from family
left join child on family.ID = child.family_id
left join pet on pet.child_ID = child.Id
group by family.name,family.ID
having count(child.id) > 1 and count( pet.id) <>0 and count(child.id) > count( pet.id)
Output

Answer 3

looks like you are close but if I understand right:
With parent as (
select 'Charlie' name from dual union all
select 'Ben' name from dual union all
select 'Bob' name from dual union all
select 'Harry' name from dual
)
,child as (
select 'Ben' parentname, 'Bebbie' name from dual union all
select 'Ben' parentname, 'Tilda' name from dual union all
select 'Bob' parentname, 'Shara' name from dual union all
select 'Bob' parentname, 'Sandra' name from dual
)
,pet as (
select 'Tilda' childname, 'Dog' pet from dual union all
select 'Tilda' childname, 'Cat' pet from dual union all
select 'Shara' childname, 'Bird' pet from dual union all
select 'Shara' childname, 'Snake' pet from dual
)
select pa.name,ch.name,count(pe.pet)
from parent pa
inner join child ch on ch.parentname = pa.name
left join pet pe on pe.childname = ch.name
group by pa.name,ch.name