UDP server and connected sockets - udp

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Seems my question was asked nearly 10 years ago here...
Emulating accept() for UDP (timing-issue in setting up demultiplexed UDP sockets)
...with no clean and scalable solution. I think this could be solved handily by supporting listen() and accept() for UDP, just as connect() is now.
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In a followup to this question...
Can you bind() and connect() both ends of a UDP connection
...is there any mechanism to simultaneously bind() and connect()?
The reason I ask is that a multi-threaded UDP server may wish to move a new "session" to its own descriptor for scalability purposes. The intent is to prevent the listener descriptor from becoming a bottleneck, similar to the rationale behind SO_REUSEPORT.
However, a bind() call with a new descriptor will take over the port from the listener descriptor until the connect() call is made. That provides a window of opportunity, albeit briefly, for ingress datagrams to get delivered to the new descriptor queue.
This window is also a problem for UDP servers wanting to employ DTLS. It's recoverable if the clients retry, but not having to would be preferable.

Answer 1

connect() on UDP does not provide connection demultiplexing.
connect() does two things:
Sets a default address for transmit functions that don't accept a destination address (send(), write(), etc)
Sets a filter on incoming datagrams.
It's important to note that the incoming filter simply discards datagrams that do not match. It does not forward them elsewhere. If there are multiple UDP sockets bound to the same address, some OSes will pick one (maybe random, maybe last created) for each datagram (demultiplexing is totally broken) and some will deliver all datagrams to all of them (demultiplexing succeeds but is incredibly inefficient). Both of these are "the wrong thing". Even an OS that lets you pick between the two behaviors via a socket option is still doing things differently from the way you wanted. The time between bind() and connect() is just the smallest piece of this puzzle of unwanted behavior.
To handle UDP with multiple peers, use a single socket in connectionless mode. To have multiple threads processing received packets in parallel, you can either
call recvfrom on multiple threads which process the data (this works because datagram sockets preserve message boundaries, you'd never do this with a stream socket such as TCP), or
call recvfrom on a single thread, which doesn't do any processing, just queues the message to the thread responsible for processing it.
Even if you had an OS that gave you an option for dispatching incoming UDP based on designated peer addresses (connection emulation), doing that dispatching inside the OS is still not going to be any more efficient than doing it in the server application, and a user-space dispatcher tuned for your traffic patterns is probably going to perform substantially better than a one-size-fits-all dispatcher provided by the OS.
For example, a DNS (DHCP) server is going to transact with a lot of different hosts, nearly all running on port 53 (67-68) at the remote end. So hashing based on the remote port would be useless, you need to hash on the host. Conversely, a cache server supporting a web application server cluster is going to transact with a handful of hosts, and a large number of different ports. Here hashing on remote port will be better.
Do the connection association yourself, don't use socket connection emulation.

Answer 2

The issue you described is the one I encountered some time ago doing TCP-like listen/accept mechanism for UDP.
In my case the solution (which turned out to be bad as I will describe later) was to create one UDP socket to receive any incoming datagrams and when one arrives making this particular socket connected to sender (via recvfrom() with MSG_PEEK and connect()) and returning it to new thread. Moreover, new not connected UDP socket was created for next incoming datagrams. This way the new thread (and dedicated socket) did recv() on the socket and was handling only this particular channel from now on, while the main one was waiting for new datagrams coming from other peers.
Everything had worked well until the incoming datagram rate was higher. The problem was that while the main socket was transitioning to connected state, it was buffering not one but a few more datagrams (coming from many peers) and thus thread created to handle the particular sender was reading in effect a few more datagrams not intended to it.
I could not find solution (e.g. creating new connected socket (instead connecting the main one) and pass the received datagram on main socket to its receive buffer for futher recv()). Eventually, I ended up with N threads, each one having one "listening" socket (with use of SO_REUSEPORT) with datagram scattering done on OS level.