Can't cascade delete or update in Nhibernate if several Entities has references to the same source - nhibernate

Question

I have such mapping of ChargeOperations(left table) and Distributions(right table):
In code mapping of ChargeOperations looks like:
HasMany(x => x.Distributions).Table("ShadowDistributions").KeyColumn("SourceId").Cascade.All().Inverse();
ShadowDistributions - is a right table. x.Distributions is a just a list of Distributions(right table). X - is ChargeOperation(left table)
Mapping of Distributions (right table)
References(x => x.Source).Nullable().Column("SourceId").Not.LazyLoad();
References(x => x.Dest).Nullable().Column("Dest").LazyLoad().Fetch.Join().Cascade.All();
So, I want to delete just one row from Distributions (right table).
And the applications throws different mapping exceptions like "Transaction could not commit because of a failed resource : deleted object would be re-saved by cascade (remove deleted object from associations)[ChargeOperation#58]"" or "Unexpected row count: 0; expected: 1" and so on.
I use cascade for creating entities and it works great, but for delete I had to
clean all references in the right table, and after that save all types of entities separately. If not, I'll get errors.
But I'd like to use cascade saving. How can I realize it?
Possible variants after save:
deleted just one record from right table. all records in left
table are exist
deleted just two records from right table. all
records in left table are also deleted

Answer 1

Change your Cascade to Cascade.SaveUpdate() if you don't wish to delete any of the referenced entities.
In my opinion you shouldn't be trying to delete a parent (ChargeOperations) whenever you delete one of the children (Distributions)
Example
public SomeMethod()
{
using(ISession session = ... //Get my session from somewhere)
{
Distribution childToDelete = ... //Get the distribution to delete
ChargeOperation parent = ... //Get the parent of the distribution we are deleting
parent.Distributions.Remove(childToDelete);
//Since the parent is in session just flush the session to apply changes
session.Flush();
}
}