Datagridview and access database only updates after clicking a different row - vb.net

Question

I am reading an access database and populating the info in datagridview. My form has a DGV, and 3 buttons.
Button one copies the selected row to a datetimepicker control.
Button two copied the updated datetimepicker value back to the DVG
Button three does an update (writes the info back to the database).
My issue is that the info only gets updated in the database if I select a different row before hitting button three. I am not getting any error message in either case.
Below is my code. The database only has 2 columns (name and DOB - which is date/time).
Public Class Form1
Dim dbConn As New OleDb.OleDbConnection
Dim sDataset As New DataSet
Dim sDataAdapter As OleDb.OleDbDataAdapter
Dim sql As String
Dim iTotalRows As Integer
Dim sShipTypeFilter As String
Dim sBuildingFilter As String
Dim sCustSuppFilter As String
Dim sStatusFilter As String
Dim sDayFilter As String
Dim dv As New DataView
Sub myDBConn()
dbConn.ConnectionString = "PROVIDER=Microsoft.ACE.OLEDB.12.0;Data Source=C:\Users\terry\Documents\Database1.accdb"
Debug.Print("Start:" & DateAndTime.Now.ToString)
dbConn.Open()
sql = "select * from TableX"
sDataAdapter = New OleDb.OleDbDataAdapter(Sql, dbConn)
sDataAdapter.Fill(sDataset, "MyTable")
dbConn.Close()
iTotalRows = sDataset.Tables("MyTable").Rows.Count
Debug.Print("Rows from Access:" & iTotalRows)
Debug.Print("End:" & DateAndTime.Now.ToString)
End Sub
Private Sub Form1_Load(sender As Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Me.Load
Call myDBConn()
Debug.Print("DVG1 row count before binding:" & DataGridView1.Rows.Count)
'dv = New DataView(sDataset.Tables(0), "Shipment = 'Regular' and Building = 'CSE'", "Company DESC", DataViewRowState.CurrentRows)
dv = sDataset.Tables(0).DefaultView
Debug.Print("DataView count:" & dv.Count)
DataGridView1.DataSource = dv
Debug.Print("DVG1 Rows:" & DataGridView1.Rows.Count)
DataGridView1.Columns("DOB").DefaultCellStyle.Format = "hh:mm tt"
DataGridView1.SelectionMode = DataGridViewSelectionMode.FullRowSelect
End Sub
Private Sub Button1_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button1.Click
dtp1.Value = DataGridView1.SelectedRows(0).Cells("DOB").Value
End Sub
Private Sub Button2_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button2.Click
DataGridView1.SelectedRows(0).Cells("DOB").Value = dtp1.Value
End Sub
Private Sub Button3_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button3.Click
Debug.Print("switched row")
Me.Visible = False
Dim sqlcb As New OleDb.OleDbCommandBuilder(sDataAdapter)
sDataAdapter.Update(sDataset.Tables("MyTable"))
Me.Close()
End Sub
End Class

Answer 1

Before updating you need to Endedit. This means you need to add Endedit for the datagridview.
So this will be your code:
Debug.Print("switched row")
Me.Visible = False
Dim sqlcb As New OleDb.OleDbCommandBuilder(sDataAdapter)
Datagridview1.EndEdit()
sDataAdapter.Update(sDataset.Tables("MyTable"))
Me.Close()
EDIT1:
Dim dt As New DataTable
dbConn.Open()
sDataset.Tables.Add(dt)
sDataAdapter = New OleDbDataAdapter("Select * from TableX", dbConn)
sDataAdapter.Update(dt)
dbConn.Close()

Answer 2

I figured it out - thanks Stef for putting me on the right track.
My DGV is only updated programmatically (not by user edits) so I updated the code for button 2 to set the editmode, begin editing, update the selected DVG row and end editing:
Private Sub Button2_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button2.Click
DataGridView1.EditMode = DataGridViewEditMode.EditProgrammatically
DataGridView1.BeginEdit(True)
DataGridView1.SelectedRows(0).Cells("DOB").Value = dtp1.Value
DataGridView1.EndEdit()
End Sub
After doing this modification - my datadapter.update command works!!